Dating guidelines for christians
One of the most potent killers of relationships is when the two parties are pulling against each other; headed in different directions.
If you are a Christian man hoping to remain pure and focused through the dating phase, its already difficult enough trying, you don’t want to complicate it by dating someone who wants different things than you.
Too many Christian men are looking to marry Mary the Mother of Christ, but she has been dead a long time now.
No one is perfect, what you need to look out for is the genuineness of faith and the drive to grow and become a better Christian.
It’s a tricky path and compromising those values is rather easy and much more so if you are too worried about relevance among your peers or trying too hard to escape the harsh societal stereotype of the Christian man.
Maintaining these values are really a matter of choice and the strength of your convictions.
Rushing emotions are caused by words and are often a precursor to sexual relations, because the mind is the greatest sex organ.
Have reasonable standards and preferences, I am not necessarily talking about physical preferences, though that too must be reasonable.I know I have said it many times before, but it can’t be overemphasized.Prayer increases focus and our sensitivity to hear from God.You need to stay with scriptures and prayers as well as read good books and get involved in activities that shape character.There is no need looking for Miss right if you are not alright yourself.